There’s an evocative song from the 1980’s that explores the complexities of love and relationships, questioning the importance of romantic love when it comes to our personal independence and self-worth. Can you think of a song from that era that fits this description? What if I told you it was performed by the incredible Tina Turner, who brought such heartfelt emotion to her music?
Released in 1984, the lyrics and soulful voice of Tina singing “What’s Love Got to Do with It,” beautifully expressed a sense of independence and affirmation as the singer contemplated the equity and liability that love represented when simply looking to act on a moment of attraction.
At the time, it was a great song that celebrated women embracing their own autonomy in life. The 1980s saw an increase in women entering the workforce, with many pursuing careers that had previously been dominated by men. This shift was partly driven by economic necessity and changing societal norms, allowing women to assert their independence.
Love had long been viewed as the ultimate prize for women, but the song confidently challenged this notion. It conveyed a powerful message that choosing to walk away from an unfulfilling love is a courageous and empowering decision. It urged women to prioritize their dreams, freedom, and self-empowerment over temporary relationships. This reminder reinforced that their aspirations are not just important, but absolutely deserving of attention and respect.
The decade was a big deal for progress in the fight for empowerment and equality. This song, along with others, captured a moment when women were stepping up and claiming their right to act on attraction without needing to be all emotional about it, showing a more laid-back and realistic take on relationships.
Like many songs that came from women of the 80s, this one encapsulated the spirit of an era where women were increasingly reclaiming their narratives and asserting their rights – saying, “I too can have fun, without commitment.” and ” I too can have a career and not live a life dictated by romantic love.
Skepticism About Love:
The chorus repeatedly asks, “What’s love got to do with it?” suggesting a belief that love is not the primary factor in the modern relationships of the 80s.
Furthermore the skepticism is suggested by Tina’s emotions, implying that relationships are sometimes complicated and painful, and love is not really part of the equation.
Tina’s personal experience further exemplified that all too often, love could be a lie. There are moments, instances when love is misunderstood, and misrepresented, sometimes by ignorance, and sometimes intentionally. When curtain drops, you see that love had nothing to do with it.
“What’s Love Got to Do with It” presents a powerful commentary on love’s role in our lives, at the time, and still now, encouraging listeners to question traditional notions of romance and to prioritize their own identity and strength. Through its catchy melody and thought-provoking lyrics, the song resonates with anyone who has grappled with the complexities of love and relationships, making it a timeless anthem of empowerment and self-awareness and why I chose to speak to it, in this month of February Love.
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Love that singer and SONG
Very realistic